When God wants to test us, He looks at what we love.
2/11/13
Kawan.
Kadang-kadang kawan datang dalam hidup kita sebab Allah nak ingatkan kita benda kita lupa. Atau Allah nak kita belajar daripada perkongsian pengajaran dengan kawan kita. Atau boleh jadi juga, Allah nak hantar amaran-amaran akan perkara yang akan berlaku sebab hati kita,hati kawan kita,Allah yang pegang. Allah tu maha Penyayang dia set up kan satu-satu perkara kita tak nampak hari sebelumnya,tapi di kemudian hari.
Hikmah berukhuwah and berziarah itu sangat indah and subjektif. Sooo. Apa lagi! Moh la kita ^_^
Hikmah berukhuwah and berziarah itu sangat indah and subjektif. Sooo. Apa lagi! Moh la kita ^_^
2/3/13
Ke manakah kita selepas kematian?
Abu Bakar R.A. telah ditanya tentang kemana roh pergi setelah ia keluar dari jasad. Maka berkata Abu Bakar R.A: "Roh itu menuju ketujuh tempat":
1. Roh para Nabi dan utusan menuju ke Syurga Adnin.
2. Roh para ulama menuju ke Syurga Firdaus.
3. Roh mereka yang berbahagia menuju ke Syurga Illiyyina.
4. Roh para shuhada berterbangan seperti burung di syurga mengikut kehendak mereka.
5. Roh para mukmin yang berdosa akan tergantung di udara tidak di bumi dan tidak di langit sampai hari Kiamat.
6. Roh anak-anak orang yang beriman akan berada di gunung dari minyak misik.
7. Roh orang-orang kafir akan berada dalam Neraka Sijjin, mereka diseksa berserta jasadnya sampai hari Kiamat.
Telah bersabda Rasullullah S.A.W: "Tiga kelompok manusia yang akan dijabat tangannya oleh para malaikat pada hari mereka keluar dari kuburnya":
1. Orang-orang yang mati syahid.
2. Orang-orang yang mengerjakan solat malam dalam bulan ramadhan.
3. Orang berpuasa di hari Arafah.
Kelompok manakah kita?
1. Roh para Nabi dan utusan menuju ke Syurga Adnin.
2. Roh para ulama menuju ke Syurga Firdaus.
3. Roh mereka yang berbahagia menuju ke Syurga Illiyyina.
4. Roh para shuhada berterbangan seperti burung di syurga mengikut kehendak mereka.
5. Roh para mukmin yang berdosa akan tergantung di udara tidak di bumi dan tidak di langit sampai hari Kiamat.
6. Roh anak-anak orang yang beriman akan berada di gunung dari minyak misik.
7. Roh orang-orang kafir akan berada dalam Neraka Sijjin, mereka diseksa berserta jasadnya sampai hari Kiamat.
Telah bersabda Rasullullah S.A.W: "Tiga kelompok manusia yang akan dijabat tangannya oleh para malaikat pada hari mereka keluar dari kuburnya":
1. Orang-orang yang mati syahid.
2. Orang-orang yang mengerjakan solat malam dalam bulan ramadhan.
3. Orang berpuasa di hari Arafah.
Kelompok manakah kita?
1/31/13
Politeness
Politeness is part of the attitude of the believers, and it is lowering the wing of humility to people, speaking gently, and not speaking harshly to them, which are among the best means of creating harmony
—ibn Battaal
1/27/13
Much neglected Prohetic Sunnah
“A much neglected Prophetic Sunnah is to make others feel important and appreciated—behaving and dealing with such love, care and concern that they begin to feel they are one of the dearest people to you.” - Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari
Courtesy of Farahin Ayob.
Courtesy of Farahin Ayob.
1/19/13
Masturbation. is it haraam in Islam?
Post for today is something we rarely hear in our society because it may happen among us but some feel shame to admit.
8) Strengthening one’s willpower and avoiding spending time alone as recommended by the Prophet when he said "Do not spend the night alone" Ahmad 6919.
9) Following the Prophet’s aforementioned hadeeth and fast when possible, because fasting will temper one’s sexual desire and keep it under control. However, one should not overreact and swear by Allaah not to return to the act because if one does not honor one’s promise, one would be facing the consequences of not living up to one’s oath to Allaah. Also, note that medication to diminish one’s sexual desire is strictly prohibited because it might permanently affect one’s sexual ability.
10) Trying to follow the Prophet’s recommendation concerning the etiquette of getting ready for bed, such as reading well-known supplications, sleeping on the right side, and avoiding sleeping on the belly (the Prophet forbade sleeping on the belly).
11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth:
"Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469.
12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allaah.
13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allah’s forgiveness will be accepted, by His will.
Wallahu a’lam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.
Many disease can come off this filth activity, such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and back pain. BUT, losing hope is a major sin punishable by Allah. This is a problem that I commonly hear behind my back especially among the guys but girls are not an exception. I hereby copy and paste a very helpful Q & As from a website.
This is a habit of Masturbation. Is it haraam in Islam and how to cure it.
I have a question which I am shy to ask but another sister who has come to Islam recently wants an answer to and I do not have an answer (with dilals from the Qur'an and Sunnah). I hope you can help and I hope Allah will for give me if it is inappropriate but as Muslims we should never be shy in seeking knowledge. Her question was "Is it permissible in Islam to masturbate?".
May Allah increase us all in knowledge.
May Allah increase us all in knowledge.
Praise be to Allaah.
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence:
First from the Qur’aan:
Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning):
"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor.
"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty.
Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him):
Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done.
Masturbation (for both men and women) is haraam (forbidden) in Islam based on the following evidence:
First from the Qur’aan:
Imam Shafi’i stated that masturbation is forbidden based on the following verses from the Qur’aan (interpretation of the meaning):
"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from blame. But whoever seeks beyond that, then those are the transgressors." 23.5-7 Here the verses are clear in forbidding all illegal sexual acts (including masturbation) except for the wives or that their right hand possess. And whoever seeks beyond that is the transgressor.
"And let those who find not the financial means for marriage keep themselves chaste, until Allah enriches them of His bounty." 24.33. This verse also clearly orders whoever does not have the financial means to marry to keep himself chaste and be patient in facing temptations (including masturbation) until Allah enriches them of His bounty.
Secondly, from the sunnah of the Prophet (peace be upon him):
Abdullaah ibn Mas’ood said, "We were with the Prophet while we were young and had no wealth whatsoever. So Allaah’s Messenger said, "O young people! Whoever among you can marry, should marry, because it helps him lower his gaze and guard his modesty (i.e. his private parts from committing illegal sexual intercourse etc.), and whoever is not able to marry, should fast, as fasting diminishes his sexual power." Bukhari:5066. The hadeeth orders men who are not able to marry to fast despite the hardship encountered in doing so, and not to masturbate despite the ease with which it can be done.
There are additional evidences that can be cited to support this ruling on masturbation, but due to the limited space we will not go through them here. Allaah knows what is best and most correct.
As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions:
1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders and fearing His punishment.
2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophet’s hadeeth.
3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it.
4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophet’s hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings):
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31
Allaah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden).
5) Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge.
6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality.
As for curing the habit of masturbation, we recommend the following suggestions:
1) The motive to seek a cure for this problem should be solely following Allaah’s orders and fearing His punishment.
2) A permanent and quick cure from this problem lies in marriage as soon as the person is able, as shown in the Prophet’s hadeeth.
3) Keeping oneself busy with what is good for this world and the hereafter is essential in breaking this habit before it becomes second nature after which it is very difficult to rid oneself of it.
4) Lowering the gaze (from looking at forbidden things such as pictures, movies etc.) will help suppress the desire before it leads one to commit the haraam (forbidden). Allaah orders men and women to lower their gaze as shown in the following two verses and in the Prophet’s hadeeth (interpretations of the meanings):
"Tell the believing men to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.). That is purer for them. Verily, Allah is all-aware of what they do. And tell the believing women to lower their gaze (from looking at forbidden things) and protect their private parts (from illegal sexual acts, etc.) ..... " 24.30-31
Allaah’s messenger said: "Do not follow a casual (unintentional) look (at forbidden things) with another look." Al-Tirmidhi 2777. This is a general instruction by the Prophet to abstain from all that may sexually excite a person because it might lead him/her to commit the haraam (forbidden).
5) Using one’s available leisure time in worshipping Allaah and increasing religious knowledge.
6) Being cautious not to develop any of the medical symptoms that may result from masturbation such as weak eyesight, weak nervous system, and/or back pain. More importantly, feeling of guilt and anxiety that can be complicated by missing obligatory prayers because of the need to shower (ghusl) after every incidence of masturbation.
7) Avoiding the illusion that some youth have that some youth have that masturbation is permissible because it prevents them from committing illegal sexual acts such as fornication or even homosexuality.
11) Striving hard to be patient and chaste, because persistence will eventually, Allaah willing, lead to attaining those qualities as second nature, as the Prophet explains in the following hadeeth:
"Whoever seeks chastity Allaah will make him chaste, and whoever seeks help from none but Allaah, He will help him, and whoever is patient He will make it easy for him, and no one has ever been given anything better than patience." Bukhari:1469.
12) Repenting, asking forgiveness from Allaah, doing good deeds, and not losing hope and feeling despair are all prerequisites to curing this problem. Note that losing hope is one of the major sins punishable by Allaah.
13) Finally, Allaah is the Most Merciful and He always responds to whoever calls on Him. So, asking for Allah’s forgiveness will be accepted, by His will.
Wallahu a’lam. And Allah knows what is best and most correct.
Sheikh Muhammed Salih Al-Munajjid
How beauty Islam is, Allah provide us a way of life that actually keeps us from weakness, from disease, from shame and from destruction of ummah.
1/14/13
Never Give Up Hope :)
This is another one. Both are nicely said :)
1/11/13
beda beda
Pernah tak masa kecik kita taktahu beza antara mangga dan manggis? ciku and langsat and mata kucing? selesa and selasa? cheetah and leopard? sittatun and tis a'tun? asrama and asmara? pacat and lintah? okay.. dua terakhir tu dah besar sikit la baru discover wujudnya binatang yang hisap darah and taktahu mana kepala and mata dia and gigi dia..
OH and fikir perkataan "kongsi" tu sebenarnya perkataan bahasa cina? I had weeeeeeeird thinking when I was a kid. I overthink many things.. How to have baby, pelik dengan some of my friends yang duduk Malaysia tapi tak pandai cakap melayu because I thought macam mana boleh survive(pemikiran masa kecik). Rambut lurus and kerinting macam mana boleh lain.
My point is,manusia macam forever learn new things despite of age and zaman. Bila dah besar ni pun sometimes I felt the same thing again.. funny. macam you lupa which one is y-axis and which one is x-axis ( SPM days).. how to spell certain word (college days)..
1/10/13
bedtime song
I love this song whenever I feel left out by him (dramatic sangat ayat haha).. study. biasalah.. bila kita study dia main game. bila kita nak have a break nak borak dengan dia time tu dia study >.<
Muhammad Uzair. He is my best friend.
I want to live my life sampai tua with my best friend.
He knows a lot (tergantung ayat? haha.memang).. He is my mobile Netter, dictionary and banker. I love him. He gives me good pieces of advice that keeps me going. I pray everyday so he would be the one for me.
O PLEASE ALLAH!
1/7/13
I nak kahwin!
Have I told you guys that my motivation to study hard is sebab nak kahwin? kehkeh.. I NAK KAHWINN!! *budak kecik gatal I know but who cares? ada siapa kata Kahwin itu kena bila dah habis degree? Rationally speaking nak stable lagunya gitulah.. Namun begitu, rasa itu dah datang. But kena TAHAN itu sungguh torture. T__T
1/3/13
Respect is to be earn, not to be gain
Earn and gain is two different thing.
Ujer berpesan. Lebih kurang gini..
" Ana kena earn the respect. bukan gain. Earn and gain is two different thing".
Aku dah confuse. apa beza dia? Diam seketika.
"Okay.. Ana bayangkan. Contoh ada satu perompak ni dia masuk rumah orang, curi duit.Tambah-tambah banyak banyak. itu gain duit banyak banyak. sebab dia kumpul duit tu.Tapi kalau orang yang bekerja to EARN duit, that is more honourable. Jadilah yang macam tu. Itu bezanya perkataan Ana kena faham dengan perbuatan Ana".
Senyuman lebar. :D
Ujer berpesan. Lebih kurang gini..
" Ana kena earn the respect. bukan gain. Earn and gain is two different thing".
Aku dah confuse. apa beza dia? Diam seketika.
"Okay.. Ana bayangkan. Contoh ada satu perompak ni dia masuk rumah orang, curi duit.Tambah-tambah banyak banyak. itu gain duit banyak banyak. sebab dia kumpul duit tu.Tapi kalau orang yang bekerja to EARN duit, that is more honourable. Jadilah yang macam tu. Itu bezanya perkataan Ana kena faham dengan perbuatan Ana".
Senyuman lebar. :D
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